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[quote=Anonymous]Forget your marriage.  This guy is a mentor to you, and you want to have an affair with him?  That's the quickest way to trash your career and reputation.  If you start an affair, it is delusional to think that people won't notice.  All of the things you have accomplished on your own will then be seen as a product of your having had sex with him for it.  Even if that's not true, that's how people will see it.

Also, for god's sake, don't make life harder for the rest of us who don't feel like having to sexually service our mentors.  You're like the Penthouse letter that makes every guy believe that some ridiculous scenario (doing the emergency room nurse when you come in with a gash) is actually real life.  When women like you become emotionally involved with the boss or mentor, you just make men believe that they can expect it for all of us.

BTW, I had a huge crush on a male subordinate of mine.  I believe it was reciprocated, but never made a move and shut down all of his efforts politely, because I respected himself and myself too much.  And, because, as a human, I have thing called self-control.  [/quote]

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