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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I get where you're coming from. We can have all the sympathy in the world for this man's loss, but that doesn't mean you have to accept being second place for the rest of your life either. Its not a competition--I think you get that--but if he cannot celebrate his relationship with YOU as well as honor his deceased wife, then maybe he is not ready to be the guy for you. I think you need to have a loving but honest conversation about this--that its not just about FB pictures, but about whether he is ready to commit to you in various ways, including public ways. It doesn't mean that he has to be "over" her death-one doesn't really get over these things--but he has to be ready for a full relationship with you, since that's what you want. If he isn't there, or wont ever be with you, then you need to move on. [/quote]
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