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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you for the advice. I agree, there is no way to guarantee the behavior will not re-surface. DH and l will not allow my father to be unsupervised with our future child. [/quote] If I were you, I would also not treat your mom as sufficient "supervision" for your father since she never stopped his behavior before. So no grandma babysitting when grandpa will also be around. [/quote] I wouldn't trust that grandpa would be away just because grandma says so. My mom grew up with parents like yours op. Poverty led my mom to use her parents as childcare for my sister and me, and my grandma would allow people over who my mother didn't allow to have access to us. She'd lie to my mother and say she wasn't expecting guests or that she would respect boundaries, but when they'd show up, she couldn't turn them away even if we were there. So don't count on your mom being able to stand up for your kids either. [/quote]
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