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[quote=Anonymous]Just a heads up that as your DC gets older, you may find yourself 're-traumatized' by the abuse. It happened to me when my youngest was about the same age I was when I first remember the abuse. Threw me sideways and I had to go to counseling. My therapist said what I was experiencing was very common in abuse survivors. In my case, it was my father who was the abuser. He was long dead but my mother was still around. I used to think she was as much a victim as my siblings and I but when I thought about what I'd do if anyone did a fraction of what my dad did to us, I'd kill them. That realization made a relationship with my mother difficult. Just a heads up. Hope you do go through it, too.[/quote]
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