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Reply to "Would you send a letter to your Middle School bully?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's not actually true that all bullies were tormented themselves. Some people just aren't decent human beings, or go through a phase of being an asshole. There's a really helpful site founded by a bully survivor. I think it's called bullyonline. Great ideas there--and food for thought. Some that I remember are: making meaning by helping others or finding spiritual significance, ie you wouldn't be who you are if you hadn't had that experience. I also recommend a reframe--like everyone else in the world, your life has had peaks and valleys. That was a valley but doesn't have to define your life. View it as a small part of your narrative arc, and realize that your story has been continuously unfolding. You're still "writing" your story--that was one tiny chapter.[/quote]
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