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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DW would agree with OP but she showns me no intimacy at all. She is the kind of person who wants me to hold hands and say I love you all the time but yet she is reluctant to have any sexual relations. What gives?[/quote]

OP here.  I dont withthold intimacy, but our frequency has definitely gone down from about 4x a week to 2x a week. Some of that is probably because we now have a kid, but some of it is also that I am tired of being the one to initiate.  Eventhough our sex is great once we get going, I feel like he cant possibly be enjoying it as much as me because we will go without for days or weeks unless I initiate.  He's also turned me down a few times, including BJs, and while that doesnt bother me on its own, in combination with the general lack of physical affection, it definitely contributes to why I feel the way I do.

Have you tried initiating more physical contact? Holding hands or putting your arm around her? Pulling her to the side and giving a passionate kiss? See if that will help spark the intimacy.  [/quote]

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