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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We went on 1 "date" that was never labelled as such. I've had coffee with students before and it's usually a mutual ego boost thing. No one makes a move, we just both enjoy the tension/idea. Nothing has ever happened. In this case, after the meet up happened, the former student started sending photos that were not asked for (not nudes, but suggestive) and I played along with some suggestive/humoring responses. Student is never again going to be a student of mine and I will be teaching at a totally diff school in another state. Just mortified at my lack of judgement. Big age diff 14 years. And never in a million years thought student would really think this could be a "thing" given student knows I'm moving far away.[/quote]

You do need to stop being a dufous - you don't go for coffee with students to 'enjoy the tension'. You sound creepy and unprofessional which is why you are worried. Stop behaving that way when you make your fresh start. Date roller derby girls or local scientists (probably one in the same) instead - no more student coffees .

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