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DH here, in my case I usually get to choose what I get to eat for dinner.  Then like most nights I cook it for the family, though on Father's day the family makes an effort to clean the dishes and items I cooked with.  I will get a card, and excuses about how hard I am to buy things for which is why I won't get a gift. [/quote]

When you buy all the shit you want and don't save anything for us to buy, you are hard to buy for. Tell me -- really! -- right now what sort of "thing" you might actually want to recieve?

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I think this is one of the Mars/Venus things.  DW wants something specific and tells DH what it is, if she does not get that exact item she is unhappy.  DH wants DW to know him well enough to get him something he wants without saying exactly what it is, DWs feel this is an unfair request.  In my case I don't feel excited to get something I had to pick out.  If it were a big ticket item that would be different, but I would never fell comfortable asking for a big ticket item in the first place because there are always other things the family could use the money for.  [/quote]

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