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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Went on a date last night with a guy I met on okCupid. It was a long date, above average conversation. We had been texting for almost 2 weeks beforehand. He is a very nice guy. It seems like he's really into me and sees a future with me. The thing is, in person, he had a kind of awkward energy about him and I didn't feel a ton of attraction. Do you trust your gut instinct here and move on, or would you give the guy another try? He was definitely very nervous.

I almost feel like if I see him again, I'm leading him on, I don't want to hurt his feelings. But is it possible that he was really off last night and I will get more into him if we spend more time together? I know anything's possible, but what's your experience/advice?

What I've learned from this is it's better to meet quicker and see what it's like in real life! (hard because we are both busy) But that's what I will try to do in the future.

Thoughts?[/quote]

OP, if your question is should you do a second date, well, it depends.

Are you looking to find a relationship? If so, then of course you do. You can't make a decision based on one date and neither can he.

Are you looking to just go out, meet people and have a good time? If so, then you do a second date if and when it fits your schedule. Maybe, maybe not, depends on what comes up next on OKCupid.

It's really not that hard of a decision to make. At this point, it's all about you and what you want.[/quote]

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