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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you spot/date these guys?

The experience that my friends and I have had is with guys who we have had to chase on some level. They either do not want to be boyfriends, or they are not ready to propose even though they tell you they love you more than anything etc. Don't text and call very often etc

I saw another girl I know whose courtship was completely dissimilar to the pattern I am familiar with.

Guy saw her, was interested but had a girlfriend. Guy breaks up with girlfriend. Guy pursues the girl for about a year until she says yes. He texts/calls all the time, initiates dates, showers her with presents, includes him with his family all without her having to say or do anything.

What alternate reality is this? I want a guy like that!![/quote]

This is going to sound like a jerk DCUM thing to say, but I don't mean it as such. You are pursuing guys out of your league, either in terms of professional status or looks or something. Lots of men will string along women that they're not terribly interested in for sex or attention, while still looking for a marriage partner.

This view that you have, which is "I am an incredibly desirable woman but DC is overwhelmed by a plague of 'commitment-phobe' men who are 'afraid to commit'" is not an accurate description of reality.  You are pursuing men who are only marginally interested in you. Open up your restrictions a little and you will find someone who will commit to you.

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The "out of your league" thing isn't necessarily accurate, but the rest of it is spot on. The men you are dating are "just not that into you".  [/quote]

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