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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get the "they took advantage of an immigrant kid" stuff. They aren't nice and it's understandable that you don't like them but they didn't take special advantage of you. [/quote] I feel like I was fulfilling their obligations to their son. We both worked several jobs through college and grad school. They could have made lives easier for us but didn't.[/quote] I don't see the connection with your immigrant status.[/quote] His family has been here for centuries and had money. My family came here with two suitcases and $140. But somehow because I was willing to work hard while DHs siblings pursued their "passions" I ended up holding the bag financially.[/quote] Take responsibility for your decisions. You DECIDED to marry your husband with all of his financial baggage. You DECIDED to marry someone who was not as studious as you were. How is this someone else's fault?![/quote]
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