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[quote=Anonymous] Psychological projection, this is also know as "blame shifting." This is when a person attributes their negative personality characteristics, flaws or undesirable behaviors onto someone else. It is very common and we all do it to one degree or another. From a psychological viewpoint, when your boyfriend is accusing you of cheating, this is what is going on within him: He feels guilty on some level for cheating; and thus, he accuses you of cheating. By accusing you of cheating, he has internally transformed the guilty feelings he has into blame that is directed at you. This is an age-old tactic and common form of denial. This is also hallmark behavior of the less-than-savvy cheater.[/quote]
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