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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, can you run this by a counselor specializing in adoption? CASE could be a resource (though not inexpensive by any means). I found my birth family and while it was a very successful reunion, it's not without issues that neither of us had anticipated. [/quote] OP here, thanks to PPs for all the suggestions. I have completely come to terms with the possibility that she will not want contact--mostly because I don't see my adoption as being "rejected" by my biological mother in the first place. I have considered the possibility that I was conceived during an assault, but I need to think through that more carefully, i.e., what emotional damage will I inflict by reaching out? To the PP quoted above who mentioned issues that neither person had considered, can you give some examples?[/quote]
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