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[quote]PP: There are some people on this very thread who did not themselves choose to become mothers. I agree that they should not shun their bio children, but some people did not choose to become pregnant. I also agree with most everything else you said...I, too, was offended by the comments of one of the bio moms on this thread.

However, we need to try to understand each other. Ours is a unique situation. 
 --Also adopted

Sure. Of course they didn't choose to be impregnated. But they chose to go forward with the pregnancy. They chose to let that unwanted pregnancy turn into a fetus that was born and is a living, breathing PERSON walking among us. THAT was a choice. A choice that, as you and I know firsthand, affects our lives just as much as that unplanned pregnancy affects our birth mothers.

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Got it....I guess some bio moms have learned to compartmentalize in order to cope with the choice they made, and try to forget that we actually were born and became freethinking people. But take a careful look at your logic. If your bio mom had made a different choice, we would not be here right now. I personally am glad I'm here, and I hope you are.

--your fellow adoptee

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