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Reply to "Do narcissists ever know they are narcissists? Can they change?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I do feel [b]some of his treatment of me falls into emotional abuse[/b][i], whether intentional or not, and I did tell him that, which he of course scoffed at. Just a few days later he agreed to counseling after two years of prodding so I'm not sure if he looked up something and it clicked...or who knows, maybe he found a counselor to describe our situation and hope that someone would validate his behavior.[/quote] Refocus this on the impact on YOU. I.e., I feel like X when you do why, let's discuss this. And leave off the generalizing and characterizations of his behavior (you're a narcissist, you're emotionaly abusive). That's the only way you're going to mutually come to grips with this.[/quote]
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