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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - thanks all. I am trying to do less "backseat driving." The reason I do so much backseat driving is because there are a lot of moves involved and I'd like them to stop soon and for us to land somewhere we both want to live. I like a PP, telecommute so that's been a blessing.

It's exhausting to always be riding someone about their career because of my own fear, and I am really trying to back off. [/quote]

[b]If I were you I would not focus on every little decision but the larger goal of wanting to move less. That's a completely reasonable goal and request. You can talk to him about moving towards that without micromanaging[/b].[/quote]

This.  Also, is it possible because your job is flexible with telecommuting that he takes moving every few years for granted?  I know I would have a different mindset if I could just go after any job or take any position with my company regardless of location because my spouse's career is portable and I've been able to have that attitude for the past x years.
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