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[quote=Anonymous]I think that it's smart to.take some business classes if you want to start a business, and there are plenty of online cheaper or even free (Coursera) classes if what you want is the info you need, and not a degree to get someone else to hire you. Your local community college or university extension program may have courses, too.

Frankly, I can't believe all of these responses saying that you should do this in the way least upsetting/annoying to your husband. Don't spend money you don't have and don't need to spend, but I notice that despite feeling he was wasting money on a career he dislikes, your husband still spent 15 years of both of your lives on it. And you supported him financially and domestically to let him do it.

You've run a business before; you know what knowledge you lack. Start taking courses one at a time now, and tell DH this is your new hobby of it will shut him up. It sounds to me like DH wants a SAH spouse and no domestic responsibilities of his own. If he prevents you from even trying this, then there's no possible way he'll have any.

My DH is a doctor, too. He has always been encouraging of whatever I wanted to do career-wise, but I've also never felt that was his decision.[/quote]

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