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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When parents get divorced they should never allow their children to bear any difficulty that wouldn't have happened if the parents were still together.[/quote]

That is by definition impossible since "mommy and daddy being divorced" is a difficulty all by itself. And then there's the difficulty of living in two different homes which is also unavoidable. Step-parents and parents having new relationships, also unavoidable.

Don't kid yourself about kids avoiding difficulty.[/quote]

What I mean is they don't need to visit both parents separately. Parents need to come to the children on terms that are easy for the children. Parents need to have their elderly care lined up and not ever to require the children to provide care in separate locales . They need to be the financial safety net for their exes and never let that fall on the children .  Allow the children to deal with their own lives without divorce drama draining their energy or resources.[/quote]

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