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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Drop. The. Rope.[/b] Show up when you can, be pleasant, celebrate. If you genuinely can't make it, then you genuinely can't make it, and offer sincere regrets, then keep it moving. If she throws a fit, she throws a fit. Extend invitations to your events. If she can't make it, she can't make it. Offer sincere regrets that she can't join you, and say you look forward to the next time. If she throws a fit that you won't reschedule, then she throws a fit. Take yourself out of this ridiculous game. DROP THE ROPE.[/quote] Exactly this.[/quote] This. A million times. It doesn't matter what you think she owes you, what you think she should do, what you think is fair--she's not going to do it. You already know this. So stop keeping score, because you're going to lose, because this is a stupid game. Her tantrums when you can't attend or can't reschedule are not your problem. [/quote]
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