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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know about your husband, but mine has always been like this and it stems from pretty significant ADHD, which he is now only beginning to treat (at 55 years old).

ADHD is a dis-regulation of attention,which means that patients have a higher than normal propensity to tardy, disorganized and bored, as well as a higher than normal capacity to focus on things that are particularly interesting to them.

It is eminently treatable. For some it just takes more than half a lifetime to admit they have it :-([/quote]

So, in other words you're going to treat the 'talent' and basic personality right out of the guy at 55 years of age so that he can do crap for you around the house? With an army of female therapists I'm sure. Sounds like a horror movie.[/quote]

A man regularly commits to do basic adult tasks and then flakes with no notice.

A) He is clearly a talented genius and his wife should handle all the things that might hold him back from acheiving greatness (such as keeping their children alive, their home in good repair and ensuring there is food to eat).  Any suggestion that this is actually a problem is a sign of a vast feminist conspiracy to neuter virile alpha males.

B) This dude is struggling and needs to get his shit together.  If he is truly incapable of committing to and carrying out basic adult tasks on a regular basis, perhaps he should speak to a professional to explore whether he is coping poorly with an underlying issue.

Sure.  A sounds very plausible and not like you are insecure and neurotic.[/quote]

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