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[quote=Anonymous]I have a partner DH who can be kind of a stressed out ahole too. And 3 kids. And I'm a lawyer, but I never gave up my career (so happily!!). Here's the thing - let go of all conventional expectations. Those people whose husbands get the kids off to school in the morning or cut the grass are not married to guys under the same pressure or making the same money. Get yourself a babysitter, nanny, gardeners, whatever. I pretty much had to just stop asking g my husband for any help because it would just piss him off. I was always working a sucked up a lot of the childcare and housework too. Kids are teens now and he does a lot more with them, but honestly, don't compare your partnership with him to others or have the same domestic expectations because you are not similarly situated to other people. And, sorry he's an a-hole. That still sucks so matter the reason. [/quote]
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