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[quote=Anonymous]OP here responding to a couple PPs.  DH is not stressed because he has to support all of us and if he is, that is on him.  When we got married, he told me the "magic number" in savings he felt we would need to retire.  Well, we hit it, but since he made partner, he has adjusted that number higher and higher to what is a ridiculous amount.  I live modestly and he isn't the hugest spender either (though more so than me, for sure) so I don't know why we need so much money.  I gave up my own career as an attorney (which I have regrets about now), a decision he actively encouraged.

I wouldn't care if he watched reruns on TV Land 10 hours straight if he was still there for me and DD.  The reality is that he is always tired, complains about it regularly, and uses this as a reason to NEVER help out with DD during the week.  He will be up watching TV until 2 in the morning, then sleep in until 10 a.m.  It would be great if just one morning a week, he could get up with DD so I could sleep in or maybe go for a run.  I'm not a big tv-watcher, but now I watch it with him in the evening to spend time with him.  We used to run together in the mornings, hike and play tennis on the weekends.  Since DD, he's given up all sport (which was one way for us to spend time together), but he still watches as much TV as before.  I don't micromanage his TV viewing, but it does not make me happy and sometimes, yes I will let it show.  [/quote]

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