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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. Girls are difficult beyond reason during teen years.  I would go as far as to say, girls are difficult at any age. I know so many teen girls as I work with them.  Condescending, entitled, selfish, rude, sassy.... I mean 1 in 2 girls are bullies to adults these days! Many teen boys are the same, but with that I would say 1 in 5-7 boys is like this. We are doing something wrong as parents, and these behaviors are become the norm.  I am at my wits end with my teen DD as well. ADHD, and one day she is an angel and the next day I am kicking out a drinking party at my place, that I couldn't even imagine my sweet girl organizing while lying to my face. If you find a way to better it, let me know.[b] I am that patient, not raising my voice even after unauthorized party parent.[/b] She finds fault even with that![/quote]

Well, gee. Perhaps that's your problem, right there? Why do you have no spine in dealing with your own out-of-control kid?[/quote]

Gee, thank you sanctimony mommy for completely useless comment that only highlights that you have no idea what parenting is.  I heard Gestapo is hiring, a recommend you apply with haste.[/quote]

Ha! That's a good one. A parent who dares to raise her voice when her sweet little snowflake has an unauthorized party is now a sanctimony. Maybe so. But you are a fool. [/quote]

I disagree.  I refuse to yell and scream at my teens, no matter the issue.  Nothing good comes out of screaming at anybody. Some parents mistake good and strict parenting with verbal and physical abuse. I grew up with abusive parents and the only things that accomplished them was that I utterly lost any respect for them, as a teen and now. I am probably more familiar with teen brains and development than many pps here. Yelling is just as abusive as physical abuse and serves no purpose ever. Maybe some of you should actually read "yes, your teen is crazy" and other research into teen brains and development. I see my kids as they are, some of you have blinders on so thick, you have no clue you are in La,La Land with your perfect teens.[/quote]

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