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[quote=Anonymous]Tell her that you will nurse in the morning and evening at the hotel but will still need to nurse once or twice at her house. Ask which room you can go into where you can close the door. If the issue is she wants to spend a lot of time with the baby, tell her you will need a private place to pump and hand her a bottle to feed the baby while you pump. (assuming you pump). She does see like she has issues around breastfeeding but it isn't worth damaging a relationship over it. I formula fed but I wouldn't want anyone dictating how to feed my baby. Take the high road - at the least, let her bottle feed (with breast milk) while you go into a room to pump (or ask your BIL privately if you could borrow their bedroom and leave MIL out of it). The baby will need to nap at some point so there needs to be a private room somewhere, The niece and nephew seeing this is just an excuse.[/quote]
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