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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My in-laws were super helpful when they visited.  My husband warned me that they would help and if I didn't direct them, they'd decide themselves HOW to help.

So I made lists.  A list of things I wanted changed/fixed in the house (leaking kitchen sink, balcony doors don't close right, etc) and a list of errands (return stuff in Gap bag to Gap, exchange Janie & Jack stuff for one size up). DH and I also had a mental list in our heads of easy/quick things we could ask them to do when they'd say "what can I do to help?".  Actually, if you could take the garbage and recycling out. If you wouldn't mind walking the dog - she'll lead you on her normal route around the block.

I also introduced them to some nice old people their age who live near us, so they could go to the museums with new friends.  [/quote]

So.ebof your "chores" call for handyman, not what parents should be expected to do!  If someone asked me to fix a leaking sink, I would tell you to call a plumber.  Cooking a couple of meals, cleaning kitchen a few times, okay.  Laundry, no way.   Cleaning your house.  No.[/quote]

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