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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, put the title in both your SD and your name. That way she cant be bullied into exchanging it.[/quote] That's an option. I would suggest explaining calmly to your step daughter what it would mean to trade the car immediately. Explain how a car loses value as soon as it's driven off the lot, how she would probably have to take a loan to make up the difference, etc. I'll be honest I think this is more about control from the other parent. Her mom feels inadequate and has discovered how to control a situation and make silent digs at you. It's very passive aggressive. Maybe buying her a car isn't the best option, maybe you should make a down payment, make the car payments for one year, and then transfer the loan to your step daughter for the remainder of the loan. That way she has some skin in the game. [/quote]
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