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[quote=Anonymous]Every Sunday is too much!  What about them having a dinner Friday evening, or organizing family events, when they come to your place for lunch?  Your DH sounds like he has parents who are manipulative with victim/narcissist personalities and it sounds like he has no idea about their real personalities or he is of the same personality.  His Dad is basically emotionally abusing him/hence your DH is neglecting his own nuclear family as you are probably not making the scenes his Dad is, so your acceptance of this behavior is enabling him and his parents.  Plus as your kid is very young, maybe you haven't been married for that long?  So, he is just in the same dynamic as before marriage.  This happens to a lot of new marriages, DH doesn't understand that all is not the same, and gets mad that wife is "insecure and needy" and turns it on you.  Show him this thread.  He is a Dad and a husband now, and while he can still see him parents, of course, you and your DD are part of that equation now. Hence, you need to be included in these Sundays, and he needs to stop being a child/asshole.[/quote]

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