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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I stopped picking up after H. HE never started doing things for himself. Now he is my exH (for reasons other than his slovenliness). I have full custody, and when he comes over to spend time with his kids, he STILL leaves his things for others to clean up or put away. Some people never change. He remarried and found someone to do these things for him. I can tell you our 16 y.o. daughter is unimpressed by a 55 yo guy who can't put his plate in the dishwasher. It has damaged her relationship with him because it's one of the many, many ways he demonstrates his irresponsibility and self-absorption.[/quote] +1000 Both my 16yo and 18yo DC's absolutely notice all the crap DH leaves around, and the irony is not lost on them when he goes into a rage about whether their rooms are clean or not. DH wonders why his children don't respect him. We are headed down the road to divorce in the very near future for many issues as well.[/quote]
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