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[quote=Anonymous]You know what actually helped? I stopped asking/reminding saying anything at all. I kept picking up the house because I cant stand clutter, but whenever he left anything laying around (socks, mail, etc) it went straight in the trash. If it was on the floor, on the couch or any other communal area, it went straight in the trash. No discussion, no warning. My DH has an office, so any dishes that he left on the coffee table lying around went on top of his desk. His office is one area of the house that I don't pick up at all and don't care how filthy it gets. If he asks me if I've seen anything, I just look confused and say "you want to me go through the trash?" One time he spent hours going through the trash because he'd left an important document on the floor and it got thrown away. He stopped leaving things out pretty soon after that. But there were a few weeks where the only mail that was lying around was junk mail or things he didn't care about much. [/quote]
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