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[quote=Anonymous]It's stunning that your friend is going through this and you are making it about your wedding which is TWO MONTHS later. Call her after and check in on her. Call her a week after that and check in again. The next week gauge if she's ok. If so, let it go. If not, be sensitive and empathetic at that time and do what needs to be done to make her feel comfortable about the coming events. I was pregnant during the festivities for my "best friend"'s wedding and had a 4 week old at the wedding. She made it clear I was cramping her style and said something like you suggested, going so far as to say if I wanted to bail she had the next girl picked out and could I please tell her because she needed to know. I said I'd opt out of the bachelorette party with a 2 week old but that I'd be fine and drive myself to the church, etc... the day of. It was fine. But we grew apart. Because it's hard not to when you're in such different places. [/quote]
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