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[quote=Anonymous]I am certain that my former fiancé thinks that he is the victim of verbal and emotional abuse from me. While I don't deny that I did not treat him well, the dynamic was not "female abuser on male victim". I accept that is his truth, and after he broke up with me because of the abuse he experienced, I didn't engage in any of the common post-breakup abuser tactics. I steered completely clear of him. I did not contact him or his associates, I didn't try to keep tabs on him via social media or mutual acquaintances. There was no attempt at contact whatsoever. I used to see him on Metro and other public areas about once a month. Never attempted to interact. I'm sharing these details because I think true abusers operate very differently.

So yes, I accept that this person believes I abused him. I believe that we were in a dysfunctional, toxic relationship.

I've been in a happy, healthy relationship with someone else for three years. None of the behaviors I engaged in with Ex, or similar situations Ex and I experienced, have repeated themselves. [/quote]

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