Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "DH and I constantly fighting over child care - how do you do it?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you and your husband don't do anything together on weekends and you both view spending time with your kid as time spent babysitting that you don't enjoy? Can you see why this dynamic sucks and is going to make your kid feel like crap once he is old enough to understand what is going on. How about all three of you do some stuff together as a family? That should be the focus of your weekend...then when you each need to do something take it as it comes up. [/quote] THIS!!! OMG, you both see your child as a "chore". HOLY CRAP, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE??? Guess what? You're parents now. Its not just a 'job' it is now your life. This is your life. Tme for yourself is history. Get used to it and make your child your priority. How's this: Each of you gets a 2-3 hours every other weekend. That's it. Everything else is family time. Man, why don't you just give up your child for adoption and let someone raise your child who wants to be with them?[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics