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[quote=Anonymous]Ok, I get it more OP. Still think that you and your husband need to see  a counselor, pronto.

He is the one not being at all fair, with the after work outings and training for the bike thing. You have a little baby. He is married, that is crazy. But also pretty common.

I think you want him to spend more time with you and baby and you are getting pushback. So you have gotten into tit for tat bean counting to try to get some power/say. Also super common. He is still blowing you off. This is not ok. Either the 3 of you become a family or you split. I don't think you see your son as a burden, it's more the way you are trying to work out what I think is probably a long standing dynamic with DH. Yes?

And there is no reason he can't be "social" with his wife and child. How much has his life really changed? Counseling or you will end up divorced. Please don't have any more kids until this is worked out, it doesn't help, from my experience. DH needs to man up and become a real dad and partner. You going out for happy hour on his "on" nights isn't realy the solution.

Good luck, OP.[/quote]

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