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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You write a note that says "I have some private information that may be of interest to you before you marry.  Call me some time when you are alone, if you are interested.  Name.  Phone number."  Fold up small.  Next time you see them, if you can catch her for a minute alone, like if you go to the rest room together, or he leaves for a drink, rest room, etc, give it to her.  Ask her to read it when she's alone.  If not, walk up, say hello, discreetly put this in her hand, shake her hand, "Oh nice to see you again" close her hand around the note and put her hand down by her side.  She can look at it later.

Then the ball is in her court whether she acts on it or not.  It will no longer be your decision, but hers.[/quote]

I get why everyone is saying "tell her" but maybe that isn't such a good idea. You work with him, you said he can make life at work hard so who wants that. You said she is in late 30's and has a child, why isn't her focus on her child and why can't she figure out she is being duped. You go in there and tell all his business and she could end up still marrying him. You don't know her motivation, maybe she needs health insurance or maybe where she is living is getting dodgy maybe she just wants to be married and taken care of no matter what the circumstances. You tell and you could become the enemy to them both and now you have to deal with him at work. Yes there is a child involved but if his mom is doing this then can't imagine she is going to make good decisions about much of anything so you are only saving the child from this fool. She will go out and find another fool afterward. I vote, stay out of it. Could cause more trouble for you then you anticipated. Only way you could do this is if you can get message to her anonymously and then she may not take it serious cause she won't know where it is coming from. Only someone with a lot of insight and thought would take an anonymous tip seriously and she has already proven that that isn't who she is. If you insist on telling do it anonymously, then just walk away and know that you tried.[/quote]

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