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Unless you are in danger if you speak up... please tell her!!!

(How is this even a question?)[/quote]

I don't know her, I have met her once. How do I even do that, why would she believe me? [/quote]

Talk to her alone, when you are sure he want walk in and stop you, tell her everything you know. If there's something that she can easily confirm for herself, tell her to look into it but if she doesn't believe you don't lose any sleep, you did your part. Not saying anything in this situation would not be okay imo, especially with a child involved.[/quote]

He will never let that happen. Also she lives in another state and comes to visit occasionally and he goes there. He makes it a state secret when she is in town so no one gets any alone time with her. Me and other co-worker had wanted to take her to dinner and drinks and chat when she was down here one time but he was having no part of that. Co-worker tried to give her her card to contact her and he got it from her and co-worker hasn't heard from her. Only way I can have chat with her may be on FB cause he isn't on FB but I am not linked with her. He isn't my boss but if he finds out I butted in, he could make work difficult.[/quote]

If he's just a work acquaintance why would need alone time with his girlfriend in the first place?  That's odd too.  [/quote]

Then how do you get this information across to her? Or maybe I don't cause it is just to hard to do and she is old enough and should know better?
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I may have misunderstood, you have been trying to get together with her  to tell her about her creepy fiance or you have tried to get together with her just to chat?  Your work acquaintance keeping the fact that his fiance is in town does not mean he's keeping a state secret.  Or, are you guys really good friends and that's why it's odd that he keeps her from you?[/quote]

We are not really good friends and when he said he was bringing her to lunch we felt obligated to go meet her. When we got there he introduced us like we were long time friends and no one was willing to embarrass this really nice girl by speaking up so we just went along with it.  The chat would have been to tell her about the creepy fiance. Once a few of us figured out what was going on we thought maybe saying something to her was a good idea and approached him about meeting up with her again. He nixed that right away and now keeps her coming in town a state secret. He doesn't want the two worlds to collide cause she might find out all the lies he has told her. [/quote]

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