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Reply to "how to tell friend I'm not coming to her wedding"
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[quote=Anonymous] I didn't attend my BFF's wedding. I was pregnant and it was a destination wedding. I had the money for it, but it didn't feel right splurging when I was about to become a mom. We were much closer than it sounds like you and your friend are and, yes, it hurt her that I couldn't/wouldn't do it. But, I was there for all of the planning and exuberant about the photos (which were utterly fantastic, so that was easy). If it's a friendship, it'll survive the "I'm breastfeeding and can't find a place for the other kids" excuse. If this is just showing you that the friendship has run its course, send a nice gift and be done with it. No long letter required either way. Brides LOVE to be asked questions. Just follow up your no-can-do with questions about her accessories. "Have you found the perfect earrings?!!!" "What are you doing for shoes? Something fun?!!!" [/quote]
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