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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just like you're not your best self on some of your first dates, the women that you're writing off may be equally not their best selves on that first date. Get over your idea that only 1 of those 15 women is worth your time and give them at least a second date.

It may just be what you posted, but your post makes you sound incredibly superficial and conceited. [/quote]

OP here. Some of the prior posts are helpful, but I disagree with this. Just because I know exactly what I am looking for doesn't mean I'm conceited. I'm not 24. I've been around the block. I know what traits (personality wise and physical) that work for me (that I'm "into"). That doesn't make me superficial. It just means I know myself well and my preferences. When I say 1/15 it's because only 1/15 really bring to the table what I'm looking for... so I up the ante and feel the need to sell myself hard because in my world she's scarce. It means I have to go on 14 more dates until I'm likely to find one that checks the boxes the way this one does. [/quote]

np here. Then continue doing what you are doing and continue being single.  There's a reason you've had several long term relationships fail and at 33 are mystified at dating. No woman in her right mind is going to want a guy that  holds her to a different standard than himself.

Your standards are way too high.

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