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Reply to "Do you pay for IVF or do you and your partner split the cost? Wondering if I need a reality check"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's a very unique situation OP. My DH and I have all joint accounts, so this never came up. Does he have savings? Is there money in your shared account that could cover the expense? IVF is a lot of money, as we all know, and the money has to come from somewhere. To me, a critical question is whether he truly doesn't have the money or whether he's just withholding the money. I fortunately was not in a position where I had to cash out my retirement savings. I don't think it's crazy that it never occurred to him to do this himself with his own retirement savings. That's a very serious step. He possibly can't even do that based on the terms of his divorce settlement. It seems like you all need to talk a lot more about the topic. Does he even know you cashed out your retirement? Give him a chance before you write him off as a total jerk on this issue.[/quote]
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