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[quote=Anonymous]OP here and thanks for your replies! This was really helpful.

As to why I don't do simple tasks- 95% of the time I do. If it's something I can't do, I let him know and he has no problem with that. With the cup, he asked me to wash one of his cups while I was in the middle of washing a sink full of dishes. I said yes, he left the cup on the other side of the kitchen out of my sight, I finished up all the other dishes and forgot to wash it. No big deal, I was happy to wash it later that night after he asked me why I forgot. But long after the cup was washed he kept asking me over and over- "what was going through your head? Did you really forget? Were you just not thinking? Did you purposely not wash it? It was right there in the kitchen, how could you not see it? Do you always have a hard time remembering to do things?" He's not even mad, it's just that for hours or days afterwards he keeps asking me why and just seems baffled that I would forget to wash his cup. And he forgets to do things just as often as I do, but I don't care and don't make a big deal out of it. [/quote]

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