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[quote=Anonymous]I think your daughter sounds sweet, and it's wonderful that you have such a good relationship. I can totally relate to her - I studied abroad, and it was really comforting to have my mom come for a visit. I wanted her to see where I was living, meet my friends, and bring that sense of home and belonging. However, you obviously don't have an obligation to go, and you shouldn't if it will be logistically difficult and not enjoyable for you! Say no, be firm, but also show that you understand her perspective/needs and express your appreciation for the invitation. She may not understand the barriers to you visiting, or she might be feeling rejected. Ask her to send lots of pictures of her apartment/friends/travel, etc. so she can share this experience with you from afar. [/quote]
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