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[quote=Anonymous]LMFAO
It's also so sad that most women are clueless about men's sexuality.

No, you haven't gotten unlucky.  
I'm 60 and can spring hard at the first thought of sex.   It can be like flesh covered steel until I'm ready for it to explode.

Here's the thing though.   After about age 45 or so, my penis grew a direct link to my ears.   I've always been super confident around women.  However, If a woman makes just one comment about a previous lover in any kind of way, innocent or not, my penis gets nervous of a comparison.   It absolutely dumbfounds me what clueless women say sometimes.  I can get into hearing about your lovers after we've become intimate,  but not before.  If you say anything at all about them that makes me think you are comparing us, then I'm going to have PE.  I don't want to be compared at anytime up to being intimate.  If women had a clue, they should learn to compliment the man they're with and stroke his ego.

The problem with PE is that it can last forever with 'said' woman.   A couple years ago I had a very sex positive woman that told me about her previous lover prior to our first experience.   I couldn't get erect no matter what she did.   She was extremely patient for months until I finally broke it off because I realized it just wasn't going to happen.   Even though I was extremely sexually attracted to her, I couldn't get out of my mind that she would compare me.   I would rush home and think about her and get super hard and ejaculate.   I just couldn't around her.  It killed my self esteem.

Thankfully, the very next woman that never spoke of previous bf's, I had zero problems.

btw, viagra and cealis do nothing for PE.

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