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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We haven't written a first choice letter even though I have a clear preference. I feel it's a little too ass-kissy for me. And a total turn off to me if the schools use this sort of stuff to influence who they accept. I don't really want to be surrounded by parents who take that approach to be honest. Seems disingenuous to me since, for all the school knows, the parents have written this letter to every school that is hard to get a spot in.[/quote] Then you don't know how it works. First choice letters are not ass-kissy. They are a statement of fact - if you offer us enrollment, we will be there. The schools care about things like this and they will hold you to your word. Parents with any sense do not write letters like this all over town. If you're coming from any decent K-8 or K-6, they won't let you, because they care about their reputation too. [/quote] Yes, this. When you interview for a job, don't you write them a thank you note and tell them that you actually want the job? This is how the game is played. Not saying your child won't get in anywhere but a first choice letter is an important component to an admissions packet IF it is your first choice. I seriously recommend you write one and fast. Admissions decisions will be made very shortly and if your child is wait listed, you will kick yourself for not submitting one. Sending a letter after the wait list comes out saying, "You are our first choice" can't really do much if the WL doesn't move. [/quote]
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