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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Uh oh OP.  Sounds like MRAs and their handmaidens have discovered the thread.

It would be nice if you could block these types before they weigh in, because their opinions will inevitably be disregarded regardless.  [/quote]

Whatever. Op's already changing her story to make herself more sympathetic. It couldn't possibly be that her perceiption is skewed about how her DH treats her [/quote]

Sure she is.  And it's all her fault because she emasculated her husband by speaking up.  She's a vicious lying harpy.  :roll:  Did I cover all the bases? [/quote]

Not at all. I think she's probably embarrassed by her DH because he acts awkwardly due to his social anxiety. She tries to cover for his awkwardness, which makes him anxious and he snaps at her. She gets her feelings hurt and snaps back. The therapy suggestion to learn to improve their communication skills was a good one. It might make him realize therapy is helpful and make it easier for him to seek help for his anxiety.

I don't think anyone is all good or all bad in this situation. I think they're both getting under each other's skin and making it worse than it has to be. [/quote]

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