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Reply to "Controlling behavior in a DH due to extreme introversion and anxiety rather than "machismo""
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it really doesn't matter if your husband is controlling due to 'machismo' or if he's an insecure introvert. It's the behavior that's the issue. It really doesn't matter if he considers himself a feminist if you are not OK with how he is treating you. I'm sure my DH would not label himself a feminist but he is not controlling like my insecure introvert ex-BFs and has never treated me in a manner similar to your husband. Also, there is a thread out there 'changing people' which you may find helpful. In my experience people like your DH are very resistant to therapy, although I agree it is certainly worth a try. I think you need to decide if you are OK with living like this and modeling this behavior for your child or not. [/quote]
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