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Reply to "Controlling behavior in a DH due to extreme introversion and anxiety rather than "machismo""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sure, it was rude of him, but keep in mind that in this particular instance (school admissions/open house), many people, even without an anxiety disorder, might be anxious/nervous and might say something in a way they did not intend. Why do you care if he looks controlling to others if you know otherwise? If you tell him too often that he behaves inappropriately, he may shut down completely or refuse to accompany you in the first place. I would make an effort to overlook and ignore these outbursts, while nudging him towards therapy, if he is open to that.[/quote] I agree with this. This is exactly what I have been doing. I just wanted to see if I needed a reality check and I think I will just continue to think that I have a very sweet husband who gets overwhelmed sometimes in social situations and maybe should consider Paxil. But not that big of a deal.[/quote]
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