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[quote=Anonymous]OP, get a new therapist. Your counselor shouldn't be pushing you to become even more codependent with your husband. It's not your job to become his amateur therapist, and it's not healthy for you. That's why you feel all this is wrong and crazy. Because it is.

You got involved with a severely damaged person who is going to continue to use the coping skills he has developed to deal with his childhood abuse. He holds it in until it bursts out, over and over. It's so ingrained that he's barely conscious of it, and every time he does it, it feeds his negative feelings about himself, which he then reburies.

Obviously this is damaging to you, since you figuratively get covered with his explosions of festering pus on a regular basis. If he can't see this and commit himself to seeing his own therapist, then he will never be able to break this pattern and do his own healing work, and you will be damaged over and over, and be worn down. And you never know if it will get worse.

First, get a new therapist for yourself. Then, with the new therapist's support, do what's going to make you safe and in a healthier place.[/quote]

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