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[quote=Anonymous]My child gets around this vey cleverly. She never says she refuses to go or that she's mad at her dad. Instead she makes other plans - homework, school events, a job, plans to see friends, etc. At most she sees him for a meal on the weekend. It allows him to keep face and pretend everything is OK between them. He is happy to be relieved of the tasks of negotiating the conflict between his new wife and his child, happy to be relieved if any non-fun parenting like carpools or homework, etc. She gets what she wants without a scene. Is your ex really attached to seeing your son, or would he be just as happy to be relieved of the chore if it could be done in a way that he does mot look like a bad dad before the world?[/quote]
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