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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's jealous and insecure and you're doing something wrong.  I'm married, and I don't Facebook friend new men that I meet out of respect for my husband.  [/quote]

This.

Yes, he is overly jealous.  Unless you phrased it strangely, watching you outside of a bar is weird.  It wouldn't be weird if he also ended up going to the same bar and ran into you.  You make it sound stalker-y, which is a red flag, but of course it depends on exactly how it went down.  I always give a skeptical eye to any OP because I know you're trying to usually spin things to make yourself look good and the other person look bad.  So, if it happened the way you said it did...red flag.

I agree with the PP I quoted, though.  Yes, my fiancé and I can have opposite sex friends but every person and every friend request is different.  This one girl hoes around and goes after almost every guy in my fiance's circle of friends, and friends all of them even if she's never met them or only met them once.  I told him I wouldn't like it if he accepted her friend request and he understood.  I don't accept requests from random guys I barely know, either.  It is a respect thing.  We both get new friend requests from people we meet through work, other friends we start to see often, etc.  I have no issues with that and neither does he.  It's transparent, we don't sneak around or hide them from each other, and usually we BOTH know the person.

You do sound like you instigate it.  Maybe you subconsciously want him to know you're "in demand" and could have other options and he should be grateful to have you.  I don't know.  But that's not a cool game to play.  You both have issues.[/quote]

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