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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, like 5 times over! I am married to one of them. And when he pisses me off I fantasize about one of the other 4. It's a pretty good setup. [/quote]

DH/53 here.   I've found 4 in my life.  Luckily, I'm married to one of them.  I work with another, which can be frustrating.   I agree with PP that they are easier to identify when you are already comfortable with your own soul.  By easier, I mean you can find them with more confidence, not more frequency.   Interesting differences in definitions, as I've always defined soulmate as someone with whom you could spend your life, not someone you know you couldn't.   [/quote]

One, during and just after college, but we were better soulmates as friends, not lovers. Probably because I wasn't comfortable in my skin, my body. I could have spent my life with him, but time and space and a whole lot of distance got in the way.
Another, my best friend. She and I are soulmates. I could spend my life with her -- except for the sex.
A third potential ... but he is married, and I am married. I will never know, but he had bushels of potential. Partly because we both are comfortable with ourselves.

I don't classify my husband as my soulmate. We get along very well. I mean, we have our problems, too. But we work well together, good parents, good couple. But that extra something special is missing. So, maybe he is a soulmate. I would miss having him around if he were gone, but it wouldn't be devastating.[/quote]

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