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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would you even consider dating someone who was flirting with you while he had a girlfriend!? [/quote]

I don't want to date him, he just popped randomly into my head today and I am curious as to why someone would behave in this way.  It seems utterly bizarre to me [/quote]

NP here. In your prior post you indicate that you wouldn't be opposed to dating him -- or at least you were in the past, and that was after he had already shown his true colors by ghosting you and reaching out while he had a GF.  This shows poor character on his part. I don't understand why you would even consider him a friend, he hasn't proven himself worthwhile.

As for why he keeps contacting you - he may have some kind of fantasy about you, possibly even romantic, but he is incapable of following through, for whatever reason.  In terms of any kind of relationship potential, as a friend or more, this guy is a dead end. The pattern will repeat itself endlessly.
I can't speak to his psyche or what truly motivates him but I can say that this is not someone you should waste a moment more of your time with.

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